Sunday, November 2, 2008
I have always felt that people are narrow minded. that includes me as well. As much as we feel that we have got a whole chunk of problems infront of us,Im sure it would not be affecting your physiologial needs. The first slice of the maslow hierachy of needs. If you cant fullfil the first step you are not going to make the pyramid. Okay,I shall stop beating around the bush.
I have said all these to someone before. Life is indeed actually very simple but we people make it too complex to understand. Simple example. A computer. It looks like an impressive object but it is actually very simple once you learn the techniques of making one. That is why for goodness sakes we have lots of computer dealers! Well,that was just an example. What I mean is. I am not talking about family. It is okay to worry,cry,get emotional about people who are blood-related to you. But do not let emotions get to you when it comes to relationships or friendships. Something that I have come to realise.life is always about living each day at a time. We might plan the future. Expect things. But in the end it is up to God to decide where life would take you. It is something beyond your control.
If we be happy and face obstacles only when we run into them,you will never regret each day living in the world.
Earlier just now I was in town, I saw this physically challanged man whom I helped a few months back. again I saw him looking so exhausted trying to sell whatver that was in his hands. I came up to him and gave him 10bucks not wanting anything that he is selling but he forced a toothbrush in my bag. haha. It dawned on me that I should respect him as an individual by accepting whatever he is selling.
So, you see? Look at these people trying to just... survive while we get so caught up with our own emotions, thinking if that other half loves us or not or about our own insecurities etc. goodness. theres so much more to life than that. As much as it is hard to control our emotions, I always tell myself it is mind over matter. If we choose not to think about it,we could definitely do it.
My point is, the world would be so much better to live in if we have this mindset. Life is never unfair. It is a mutual balance. I have brought this philosophy in me,and will hold on to it. And it makes it easier to live life just the way it is.
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♥ posted on 12:20 AM
